An example of a mircoagression that I have experienced this week is one that
I experience almost every time I go out for a cruise in my classic car. I get
comments from people like, "Wow, is that car yours?" or "You
must sell illegal drugs to be able to afford a car like that." I take
these comments as complements towards my car. The microaggression that I can
pull from these comments is of the racial kind. Most of the people that tell me
these comments are from white upper class white men. I drive my car up the California
West coast line known as the Pacific Coast Highway and a lot of upper middle
class white people reside here. A stereotype for a Mexican who drives a fancy
car is that he must sell illegal drugs to be able to afford it. I sometimes
feel a sarcastic tone when they tell me so It then does not feel like a
complement. It makes me feel like I am not worthy of such a car. I have worked
three jobs to help pay for it. As far as classicism goes, I consider myself to be
in the working class and when someone who looks to be in a high class and makes
comments like that, I would think that if would make them feel powerful over
me. These racial microaggrssions reflect a view of
superiority. I do not pay attention to these details because I do not have time to wonder what and if people are using subliminal messages with their comments. I try to take comments for what they are, word per word.
Frank. I would love to see a photo of your ride. Is it a 50s classic or a 60s classic? Restored or hot-rodded?
ReplyDeleteIt's sickening that people of color are thought to be able to afford wealth only if they are entertainers, dealers, pimps or athletes.
This week of reading posts has been truly sobering.
By the way, I like you blog design.
Frank,
ReplyDeleteI feel as you do. No time to ponder if people are using subliminal messages or not. Take the positive and move on. Great example of a microaggression.
Amanda
Frank,
ReplyDeleteWe have all come across some type of microaggressions at some given time. We must stay strong and keep to our morals and values. This lets us deal with others who may need more teaching on how to respect and treat people.
Sandra